"My Sister is my Mother "

Everyone must be thinking.. How that happened? That is just so complicated, right?

Well, this blog is about another life story . It happened, It's real and If you wanna know the

whole story, I can just go on and you can continue reading.

This is another life story of girl .. let's call her "Shy" . She was born In Pinamalayan Oriental Mindoro. Year 1972 , Martial Law was declared In the Philippines.

As The time passes by, the little girl growing up normally. They now moved

to Socorro, Oriental Mindoro, 45 minutes away from Pinamalayan where she was born

She lived with her mother,she called her " Inay " and with her

Grandfather She called him "Mamay" and her

big brother, she called him Kuya

She has also a big sister , she called her Ate .

She has a monkey pet given to her by the "mangyan" natives from the Mountain.

They have a popular Carinderia at Socorro, it's well known to be clean and have a lot

of delicious , good food, aside from being friendly but tough when it's needed.

Shy went to school at Socorro Elementary School, then she went to high school.

Her mother put her on a semi Private school at EMITS , Pinamalayan , Oriental Mindoro.

She was a good student..her mother is so proud of her, she gives her support

for her schooling , and always with her in every activity. She never left her side.

Her Grandfather is the only fatherly figure that she ever know in her life.

The times comes , Shy is now going to college. her mother is worried for her,

Shy can't be alone in Manila, It's a big city and Shy is from a small town of Socorro

where everyone knows each other and cares for each other and Manila is different story.

It's the Capital City of The Philippines.

Her Mother decided to move to Manila and they stayed at Quezon City , where her younger , siblings live.

Once in awhile they went to visit her family and brother's who lived in Candelaria, Quezon. It's a Province of Quezon...All Shy's auntie and uncle lives there. All her cousins too .. Everyone is in Candelaria. She loves that place , every year they left Mindoro to celebrate

Christmas and New Year with all the family. It's always a big gathering,Like a reunion.

It's college day's .. Shy and her mother and her grandfather is now living in Quezon City.

They left Socorro Oriental Mindoro for good. Their carinderia was sold to a family friend.

Shy's mother is now worried of what's life gonna be in Quezon City.. It's new for her. It's new for Shy and they don't know much about city life.

Good fortunes and opportunity knocks on her mother's door..She open another carinderia in Quezon City. Become popular and known to have a delicious food. Shy was trained at young age, very well trained and she help her in everything, like they always do when their were in Mindoro, waking up at 4 AM to start the cooking and preparing for the carinderia

As times goes by , Shy is growing up fast , she adapted the city life , enjoy the company of her auntie's, She went to college , the same school where her big sister went, at Adamson University. She was so happy. As a newbies in the city and at so young age, many obstacle and bad influence around , there is a sorority that giving her trouble. She was rescued by the Adamson University Mountaineers and straightened her college life.

Shy, went to look for a job and she works at San Miguel Corporation , transfered to Monterey till she finished her college.

Life is tough for a confused girl , more tougher when her Grandfather passed away. He is the only father figure for her and she loves him very much. That one took a lot of blow and Shy was devastated..Lost the interest to live, for Shy, Her grandfather is everything for her,with out her grandfather, the little Shy is lost.

At the age of 18 something big change comes to her life.. Her biological Father was there to approach her , to be known and to have a bond with her for all those years He was never there.

to be continued ....